In most churches, the pastor doesn't
preach about it. The men won't talk about it. The women
are ashamed to report it. Nobody wants to admit it goes on
at all. Sometimes, just sometimes, woman to woman,
one-on-one, a wife will confide in a female friend that
that bruise wasn't really from hitting her
eye on the cupboard door, or that she has to wear
long sleeves to cover the marks where her husband grabbed
her arms. Sitting in church Sunday after Sunday, one would
never know that there were men that abuse their wives in
the congregation, but there most certainly are. The
church's silence on this matter only contributes to the
problem. Women's Bible studies on Ephesians 5:22 "Wives,
submit yourselves unto your own
husband" KJV are legion. The principle of wifely
submission is drilled into young brides so that they might
never forget that their husbands are in charge.
Some men will misuse, abuse and
seriously injure the woman in their life and cowardly
try to give it validity by quoting scripture as
justification. If you think we are kidding you, you
better look and listen closely today. Domestic Abuse has
been on the rise for years. It is a subject people no
longer wish to talk about. Compound that with the sex
scandals in the Catholic Church which seem to continue
to appear and women are becoming afraid to turn to their
priest, minister, rabbi for help from the abuse because
"some" churches are basically telling the women that it
is the man's role according to the Scriptures.
I will tell you that this outraged
Jenn and Steve. They both have heard their own Pastor
speak about this very subject on numerous occasions and
knew the truth about what the Bible says and God's love.
So they enlisted the assistance of Mike Bartlett, Pastor
of the Westport Christian Church, spiritual advisor for
Your Life Matters Show and personal friend of Jenn &
Steve to help set the record straight once and for all.
Listen closely today and if you
learned from today's show, we implore you to let your
friend's know and for them to let their friend's know.
Make sure they hear this interview so if EVER someone
tells them differently, they will lovingly be able to
correct any misconceptions.